Welcome to my little corner of the internet. If you have found your way here, you are probably curious to learn more about me, the individual who is curating this unique slice of this pie. Let me take you on a journey through my adventures in the lifestyle which will help you understand the amazing person behind all these words.

Genesis of Discovery, In the Beginning: I embarked on a quest for late-night tacos during my college years, hoping to savor a delicious, elusive delight. However, fate had a different plan for me that night. I stumbled upon a late-night bookstore, not the tacos I was seeking. This serendipitous introduction to the world of BDSM marked the genesis of my journey, sparking a profound hunger for both lifestyle knowledge and tacos that has persisted to this day.

Diving Down the Rabbit Hole: As I delved deeper, I found not only the intricacies of the BDSM lifestyle but also mentors, a supportive community, and my first D/S relationship. It was a time of transformative self-discovery.

Transition to Adulthood: As the chapter of college drew to a close, I stepped into the world of adulthood, embracing what I thought was the end of an era. Believing that the lifestyle had been nothing more than a fleeting “phase,” I set it aside. However, as my vanilla relationships faded and crumbled, I found myself on the precipice of profound self-reflection.

A Return to Authenticity: It became clear that the challenges in my relationships were not their fault; they were mine. I returned to the lifestyle, propelled by a commitment to self-improvement and a desire to be the best version of myself.

Today’s Journey: My passion for the lifestyle is unwavering, and I have found a creative outlet to share my unique voice through blogging, podcasting, and social media. I aim to help others avoid lifestyle pitfalls as well as my mistakes while striving to be a positive beacon. These creative endeavors also serve as a powerful means of self-expression, which has led to an unexpected achievement in the success of my podcast, Chatting With The Lightkeeper. It ranks among the top 25% of the most-followed podcasts on Spotify, and on all major platforms, or just listen to it right from the home page here!

The Multifaceted Me: Beyond my creative and kinky pursuits, I am a dedicated professional in the world of technology. When not commanding my minions in the office, I am an enthusiastic and skilled downhill skier. When the mountains are not calling, I embrace my inner nerd as a dedicated reader, writer, and history buff. I have a deep passion for all things nautical, and my love for coffee fuels my passion for stirring conversations. Perhaps you should say hello so we can share some java and jabber.

Heartfelt Principles: Integrity, authenticity, consent, communication and continuous self-improvement are a few of the lighthouses that guide my journey. I have learned valuable lessons through mistakes and missteps, such as the importance of honesty. In a past relationship, a small and insignificant bit of dishonesty on my part snowballed into a colossal problem, leading me to realize the true value of honesty and the pain dishonesty leaves behind.

Let’s Connect: As we navigate this intriguing and kinky world together, I extend a warm invitation to join me on various channels. Follow my journey on Instagram, Threads, Facebook, Fetlife, and X where we can continue our exploration.

More than just clicks and likes, I am here to encourage genuine connections and thought-provoking discussions. Your messages and thoughts are not just welcomed; they are eagerly anticipated. Feel free to reach out here via email or on one of my socials and let the engaging dialogue begin!