Edward Volkl

Coffee Aficionado, Podcaster, Poet, Writer, Advocate Of Everything Kinktastic & Sharing My Passion In A Positive, Uplifting Space.

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Teds’ Talk, A Plush Perspective On Polyamory

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Welcome, my cuddly friends! Teds here, and today we are going to explore a topic that is both fascinating and fluffy: polyamory! Now, I know what you might be thinking, what does a life-sized teddy bear know about love and relationships? Well, let me tell you, I have seen a lot in my adventures with my human and my stuffie pals, and I have a few thoughts to share. So, snuggle up, grab a snack, and get ready for this bearly patented Teds’ Talk!

My human is all about monogamy, which means they are super happy with their one special partner. They enjoy cozy moments, from movie marathons to shared ice cream cones. You will understand that Teds’ human is a submissive and little, and in the world of BDSM and kink, many people are polyamorous. It is important to understand what it is all about, even if, like Teds’ human, you are not polyamorous and over the moon with your partner.

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Essential Elements

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In the intricate world of BDSM, the dynamics between partners transcend mere physicality. They are woven together by layers of meaning, trust, and emotional connection. Titles, pet names, respect, trust, and loyalty form the bedrock of these relationships, creating a framework that allows for safe exploration and profound intimacy. Understanding how these elements interact is essential for anyone navigating this unique landscape, as they shape the very essence of the bond between dominant and submissive.

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Fetish Friday: Exploring Edgy Desires

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Knife play is a form of BDSM that involves the use of knives or other sharp implements during sexual or sensual activities. This practice can range from simply using the blade for sensation on the skin to more complex scenarios where the knife is integrated into power dynamics and role-playing. Enthusiasts often find the thrill of knife play stimulating, as it combines elements of fear, trust, and heightened sensations. The visual and psychological impact of a knife can enhance arousal for those who enjoy the aesthetic of danger or the symbolism of control inherent in such acts.

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Raise a Glass to the Wankers

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Raise a Glass to the Wankers

Here is to the absolute muppets of the world, the ones who still think social media is their playground for cringe-worthy attempts at finding romance. Raise a glass to the wankers who do not seem to grasp that starting a conversation with “DM me” or an extreme close-up of their private parts and I do not mean a VHS tape of the Howard Stern movie with the same name, is not, and will never be a smooth opener. These are the lovely folks who lurk in the digital shadows, terrified of actual human interaction, hoping that an ambiguous, one-size-fits-all message will miraculously make submissives fall at their feet. Spoiler alert: it will not.

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Fetish Friday: Peggy Bumdy Straps On

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Welcome to the captivating world of Fetish Fridays, where desires often twist into delightful surprises. Today’s title, “Peggy Bumdy Straps On,” playfully nods to Peggy Bundy from Married… with Children. This wordplay serves as a creative knock on the backdoor for a conversation about pegging. At its core, pegging involves one partner, usually a woman, using a strap-on dildo to penetrate the other partner anally. This act can spark excitement, curiosity, and even nervousness. Many find pegging enjoyable because it breaks away from traditional roles and introduces new sensations. The thrill of trying something outside of one’s comfort zone can foster intimacy and trust between partners. For some, the prostate stimulation associated with pegging can lead to intense pleasure and even heightened orgasms, making the experience both pleasurable and fulfilling.
Before embarking on this adventure, prioritizing safety and comfort is essential. Open communication between partners is crucial to discuss boundaries, preferences, and concerns. Establishing safe words and signals provides reassurance, ensuring partners feel secure throughout the experience.

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Teds Talk, A Plush Perspective On Consent

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I am so glad to be back with you for another Teds’ Talk! Last time, I told you about my not-so-great adventure with Percy the unicorn and Lilly Leap the frog. Well, let me tell you, it was BIG twouble! I had to eat broccoli for dinner and sit in the corner for what felt like FOREVER. All this happened because I got carried away and forgot something super duper important: consent!

Now, consent is a people word that means everyone involved gets to say “yes” or “no” to something, and they really, really mean it. It is like when you and your stuffed friends decide to play a game together. If one of you does not want to play, it is important to listen to and respect that. In the world of BDSM and kink, where things can get a little spicy, consent is extra important because everyone needs to feel safe and happy. If someone feels pressured or uncomfortable, it can ruin the fun, just like I ruined the ride for Percy and Lilly.

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