July 2024

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Ugh, someone said I have sub frenzy like it’s a disease? Isn’t that just being excited to explore stuff?

Thank you for the question and while you are correct, sub frenzy is not a ‘disease’, it should concern you. Sub-frenzy is a term that describes a phase where individuals, whether new or experienced in BDSM, experience intense eagerness to explore and enjoy. This enthusiasm can lead to a rush to engage in activities without adequate preparation, education, or consideration of safety measures. In other words, you might be at risk of putting yourself in a dangerous situation to explore/enjoy something kinktastic and the person or people who have brought it up are concerned for you.

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Some rando just messaged me saying my sub is simping for other doms and sending pics. Should I do a phone check?

Thank you for raising this very personal and important question and when faced with the unsettling prospect of a third party informing you that your submissive may be engaging in activities with other dominants behind your back, it raises significant concerns within the dynamics of a dominant-submissive relationship. This situation necessitates a thoughtful and deliberate approach to address the issues at hand.

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I’m a sub and my Dom’s been super stressed from work. I really want to help and comfort him, but I’m not sure how. Any advice?

In situations where your dominant partner is experiencing heightened stress from work, your role as a submissive can be a vital source of support and comfort. Here are a few suggestions that might help:

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Last week you had a question and talked about hypnosis. I was curious can you give more details on the kind of imagery or scenarios used during erotic hypnosis?

First, thank you for the question, reading my blog, and now on to an answer to your question. Exploring the realm of erotic hypnosis involves delving into a variety of imagery and scenarios crafted to induce a heightened state of suggestibility and arousal in the participant. This practice often utilizes vivid sensory descriptions and evocative narratives to stimulate the mind and enhance receptivity to hypnotic suggestions.

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How to Dodge Drama Like You Are Neo In The Matrix (But Hopefully With Fewer Black Trench Coats)

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Within the vibrant and diverse BDSM community, individuals come together to explore their desires, build connections, and share experiences. However, like any gathering of people, drama can sometimes arise, whether online or in person. Today we will delve into the dynamics of drama within the BDSM community, exploring common sources of conflict and offering practical tips for avoiding drama and fostering a positive and inclusive environment for all.

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