July 2024

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Explore The Bliss But Address The Stigmas

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Today is National Orgasm Day, a moment to celebrate the profound joy and pleasure of orgasms while challenging stigmas and raising awareness about the many facets of sexual wellness. Whether experienced solo or with a partner, this day invites participants to embrace their bodies, challenge themselves, and revel in the delightful sensations of an orgasm. This celebration is not just about the act itself but also about acknowledging and savoring the blissful experiences that come with it. Let this day be an opportunity to discover new heights of pleasure and enjoyment.

While orgasms are a natural and integral part of human sexuality, a troubling stigma remains, particularly concerning the female orgasm. Societal attitudes often diminish or overlook women’s sexual pleasure, perpetuating myths and misunderstandings. It is crucial to challenge these misconceptions and advocate for a more inclusive and respectful approach to sexual wellness. By fostering open dialogue and embracing diverse experiences, we can work to dispel outdated beliefs and promote genuine understanding.

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The Perils Posed

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In BDSM, extensive discourse permeates the lifestyle landscape, with discussions earnestly dedicated to educating submissives about the perils posed by dubious dominants. Indeed, such caution is warranted, as the presence of unscrupulous dominants can lead to grievous harm. Yet, amid the prevailing focus on safeguarding against nefarious dominants, a crucial facet remains often overlooked, the capacity for submissives themselves to manifest despicable behavior akin to that of a twattwaffle dominant.

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BDSM/Kink Incorporated Sexually And Non

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How do you explain the difference between BDSM/kink being.. incorporated sexually and non-sexually? I’d love examples as well.

When explaining the difference between BDSM/kink being incorporated sexually and non-sexually, it is important to emphasize the context and purpose behind the activities. BDSM/kink can be a versatile aspect of relationships, adaptable to both sexual and non-sexual situations. Understanding this versatility helps to appreciate the broad spectrum of kink practices and their impact on individuals’ dynamics and interactions.

When it is incorporated sexually, the primary aim is to enhance sexual arousal and pleasure. For instance, spanking during sexual intercourse or as a form of foreplay can significantly increase arousal. The physical sensation of spanking stimulates the nervous system, which can intensify pleasure and make orgasms more powerful. This form of kink play is often about creating a heightened sensory experience that directly contributes to sexual satisfaction.

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Fetish Friday Presents Peek-a-Boo Pleasures

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Welcome to fetish Friday and this week the discussion is about Peek-a-Boo Pleasures. Exhibitionism and voyeurism are two facets of human sexuality that have deep historical roots and continue to thrive in modern society. These practices, often associated with BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism), involve the thrill of being watched (exhibitionism) or watching others (voyeurism) during sexual activities. Understanding the history, common kinks, appeal, and modern manifestations of these behaviors provides insight into the complexities of human desire.

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Ice Cream And Clothespins

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As we return from dinner, you ask if you can get comfortable for the night. I answer yes, please. I hear you wander to our bedroom, knowing you will be back in just a minute. This weekend, we are making our D/S dynamic a theme that will transcend the weekend vibes. You will be asking what you should wear. I exclaim that I am still hungry as I hear you start to approach, your footsteps quiet on the wooden floor. I turn to find you standing there, wearing just your pretty pink panties, with your stuffy Lilly dangling from your hand.

“Would you like me to wear my favorite onesie, one of your dress shirts, or…” I cut you off as my gaze is drawn to your beautiful and very erect nipples. I tell you I am still hungry. “But we just had dinner,” you exclaim. With that, I take you by the hand, leading you to the living room. As I guide you out of the kitchen, I deftly grab two of the new clothespins that just arrived. They are adorned with expressions of love in gold flake paint, such as XOXO and Muh!

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Silent Strength – The Essence of Dominance

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In the world of BDSM, the concept of dominance is often misunderstood. It is easy to picture dominance as loud, aggressive, and overflowing with cockiness, but this portrayal misses the mark entirely. Dominance does not roar; it resonates with a silent strength that is both calm and measured.

Dominance, at its core, is not about overpowering or intimidating. It is about guiding with a steady hand, knowing when to speak and when to listen. The dominant presence is not one of bluster but of quiet assurance, providing a safe space for the submissive to explore their desires and boundaries.

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Stallion’s Storm

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Stallion’s Storm

I crave the thrill of spanking you today,
Not for mischief, but for your gentle way,
I want to pull you over my knee,
Even if you playfully protest,
“Spank me, touch me, use me,” you confess.

I lift the sundress I chose with care,
To expose your bare ass for my stare,
My strikes are not meant to hurt or bruise,
But to redden and sting, with love’s infuse,
Swats of desire, lust, and pleasure, in fuse.

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